Sunday, June 19, 2011

Happy Birthday Haper!!


A  lot can change overnight...a lifetime of changes happens in 730 nights.  Today, Harper turned two!  Happy 2nd birthday "buddy"!!


 one cannot do something without the other wanting to join!  This is one way chad makes sure he is "fair"!!

 these pictures are terribly out of order!  This was from today!  Charli is wearing all of Harper's toys he got from his birthday (most of them from her even!!)

 Charli and her best-bud Maggie at Bible School! 

 Harper came strolling in with Charli's glasses on  ~ he looks like a little nerd!

 this chair is just the perfect size for two little bums!

 Harper's adorable cake!  If you live in the area, I have a great cake-lady for you...she has done all of our cakes from confirmation to graduation, wedding, baptism, and now birthday after birthday!!  I made Harper's invites this year, and they look exactly  like what she made on the cake -- she did great!!!  And, it was delicious!


 excitement!!  Harper got his very own helmet for his birthday!!!  He was so proud to wear it when we rode today!


 double-picture opp here!!  You can see us on Rachelle's camera at the bottom of the shot too!! 
 It is amazing how quickly they pick up on things!  Harper got on his 4-wheeler today and drove standing up!!  Charli does this too...something she learned from her show off father!!

 the two boys on their special days!  Happy Father's Day Chad & Happy Birthday Harper!!

 I guess it is more fun to drive while you stand?!


 the back of the prowler is a great spot to rest after a full morning of playing at the shop!!


 Chad is so proud of this picture!  Zoe was his first dog as an adult...and his "baby" at the shop --- Harper was having so much fun!  They would not sit still for a picture, Zoe kept trying to (and being successful) lick Harper and when Zoe was still Harper kept trying to kiss her!!

 I am SO glad we don't have any attitude yet, that will be hard.  ;-)

 yay!!  Harper got so excited about all of his gifts!  He had several to open today as well...and he got equally excited about all of them.  He even picked a few to hug and kiss!!

 the kids working on the swing!  Charli has her "worker vest", her "tool" hat (which is a toy she gave to harper!!) and his John Deere tool set (which she also gave to harper!!) to work on the bottom side of the swing!

 I am certain he has rode on this type of toy before...but he had a blast on it today!

 Charli as a worker next to a cone at the shop!!  She loves this vest....happy birthday Harper!  ;-)




 I don't give Harper enough credit...he climbed that rope/ladder with ease all by himself!  He was so proud!  I guess I should have known, he is two ya know?! ;-)  Charli told him "Happy birthday, you 2-year old"!


 these two had a hanging contest!  Harper left Charli in his dust.  not only did he hang longer, he was pulling his legs up just to show off! 


Charli wanted to go super-high and Chad wouldn't go as high as she wanted!  So they compromised and she sat in the infant swing and Chad gave Charli her way!! (like that ever happens!!)


Tuesday, June 14, 2011

sweet memories

I have pictures, but they will have to wait for a night with more time!

Friday night I was asked to help another Relay For Life by speaking at an event in Wayne County...it was neat to see the way they do things!  What caught my attention was walking the track and seeing Charli's name in lights in a town over 90 minutes away.  Touching.

Sunday I helped another team here in our town for their Relay fundraiser by singing several songs at a concert/fundraiser they held that evening for their team.  My last song was "Anyway" by Martina McBride.  When I finished Charli walked up to me, as I was walking to the back of the church and handed me a note.  She had asked one of her grandma's to write me a note...but told her what to write.  The note said "I am happy for you tonight.  I Love you.  Good Job"  It said a few other things, but I don't have it in front of me right now!  On our way home she told me how good of a job I did, when I giggled and said "who told you to say that" she said "mom, why would anyone tell me to say that, I could hear you with my ears you know"  Ahhh, it was touching!  Chances are that yes, someone did tell her to tell me that...but she was sweet with her delivery! 

We are missing Lynn this week as they are on vacation, but the kids have enjoyed having special people come to the house to play with them!  Harper is still working on breaking FOUR of his teeth through, unreal!  He will be two on Sunday and he is still working on teeth...it feels like it may never end!

I am sure I will have lots of pictures to share after the party this weekend...until then have a great week!

PS.  Our Relay For Life is next Friday...HOPE to see you there!!  :-D

Monday, June 6, 2011

every start must have a finish....

We survived our big weekend...not only did we survive, but we thrived!  Both kids came home with us as well...there was a time I wasn't sure if I am going to be honest ;-)  We had a busy week with being gone or occupied every night of the week which made leaving on Friday difficult to get ready for!  On Friday we went straight to the Relay For Life of Sarpy County.  At this event I spoke as a Hero of Hope and Charli walked the survivor lap.  Because we didn't bring the stroller to the track with us we didn't stick around long but rather went to the hotel to let the kids tear the room apart!  Around 9:30 or 10:00 Harper went to bed (happily I may add!) and Charli was excited to stay up and watch "Good Luck Charlie"!  Everyone was sleeping by 11:00...and I was excited that we slept until 8:00!!

Saturday started with a nice little family breakfast at Village Inn before hitting the zoo.  We spent almost 7 hours there, which I still cannot believe!  We knew we didn't have anywhere else we needed to be before the event Saturday night so we did our best to go with the flow!

As you will see below the big surprise for the kids this weekend was a private tour!!  I know someone, through the amazing American Cancer Society, who hooked us with with the giraffe and penguin managers.  I wish Charli and Harper knew how big of a deal this was...but they won't until they are parents I guess!!  We got to go behind the glass and feed the giraffes fresh limbs, pet, and learn all about "Sam" the 10 year old boy.  Charli loved that...Harper didn't want to hold his food, but loved to giggle and watch Charli do it!  The faces of the children and adults were priceless...everyone wanted to be Charli, she loved the experience!!

Straight from visiting Sam and his sister Dottie we went off to visit the penguins.  We got to go in the igloo there too...behind the glass where regular people like me and you normally are!  Charli got to hang with Mac the Macaroni Penguin and many others...her favorite part of the story is that one tried to walk out with us.  They are so adorable!  We got snowed on, the penguins sang to us, we got to pet several of the little guys and girls, and soak it all in.  That was an amazing experience.  After playing with the penguins we got to take a full tour and see the entire aquarium from the top!!  Chad got to see all the plumbing which he thought was neat, and we got to meet many other neat animals like Bubbles the turtle, jelly fish, sharks, and both kids even got to feed monkeys!!  We got to meet one of their scuba-divers too!  Our last stop was to the kitchen where we got to see all their food, that was impressive!!  We are blessed to have been able to experience that!  They truly rolled out the red carpet for us that day!  I was told that private tours really never happen, so we should enjoy it!!  Once in a life time, I am certain Chad and I loved it!  I mean...the kids had a great time :-)

We stopped for ice cream before making our way to the Relay For Life of Mid-Town Omaha. That was an amazing event..one I hope I never forget.  They made us feel very welcomed and they wanted to hear all we had to share.  Charli wanted to walk the survivor lap by herself...which amazes me!  So all along in big-ole-Omaha we let her go, and we met her half way going the other direction.  She decided she wanted to run to the finish line, and I knew everyone was watching so I had to run with her!  She inspired others of all ages, sizes, and personalities to run to their finish line as well!!

As we were getting ready to take off for the night a women came up to me and shared the following story..."Hi Brenda, I just had to introduce myself.  I was at the Mid-Town kick off party which you and Charli came to speak at this winter.  I have never been involved with the Relay before but I went to help a friend with her kids that night, my 7 year old son came with me.  When you spoke that night, you just spoke to my heart.  When I heard your words and saw your daughter I knew that I wanted to do something.  That night we went home and my son could not stop talking about you and the things you said.  Together we decided we wanted to be on the committee...and now here we are the first of many years."  As she finished she was crying and pointing to her son who I noticed had stuck pretty close to Charli all night, a really neat kid.  A few minutes later he came up and asked me how many days were in a year, to which I told him.  He turned around and came back to show me his phone which read 46 x 365 = 16,790.  He said 'wow, you said that 46 children would be diagnosed with cancer today and each day...that is this many kids every year'.  I walked away from that event knowing that he was going to make a difference in our fight in cancer.  This 7 year old boy walked around with his phone to share that number with everyone in his path.  I just can't even put into words how I felt after having that conversation..."they filled my tank".  I am so excited to keep traveling the state of Nebraska to share Charli's story...we have been honored and blessed by this opportunity!

Anyway....that night we came home after enjoying their event so we could get going on the poker run Sunday!  We had a great day, the weather was beautiful and I couldn't have asked for more.  Through every ones help we will help 4 families with their financial needs in the months to come.  We saw many faces who have made the event all five years...what another humbling day.  Although these events always leave me feeling a little exhausted and rushing to do whatever is "next", I love it and wouldn't want it any other way!  This week I can easily say I know I was doing what I was meant to be doing...



 Charli trying to decide if she wanted to pet this crab...she did eventually!!

 Charli feeding these cute little monkeys peanut butter...they were adorable and talked to Charli while she was giving them this little treat!

 Harper could not get over there fast enough to feed them too!  He loved this, these little guys were small and probably less intimidating!

 Charli was SO excited to be on the skyfari!  The girls rode together and the boys were ahead of us...Charli told me "be brave mom" as she knows I am not a fan of heights!!

 as a grandma and baby were on their way in the opposite direction the baby opened her mouth and lost her paci in the rhino pen...charli thought that was just too funny!!

 hey boys are they made their way around the half-way point!

 riding the train, another highlight for Charli!  Each time the train would blow its horn Harper would scream back as if he was in a competition to be louder! And...I am pretty sure he was.

 I hear all the time that Harper looks like the Borg's...and here is no exception, he can't seem to keep his eyes open for pictures :-)

 I didn't think that this would be such a big deal as we get to pet goats weekly...but Harper chased these guys all over!

 She is growing!!  Last year we took her picture next to this guy too!!

 This is Charli's impression of a gorilla!!

 Charli and her daddy enjoying the fish!  All she wanted to do was put her foot in, and she just couldn't help herself...after about 15 minute of sitting there ~ in went her toes!

 Harper finally feel asleep about 6 hours into the day, and napped for about 30 minute!

 she loves his man more than anything!

 who knew 4-year olds could be so brave?!  She had no idea who anyone was on this track, yet she was determined to walk the track alone...

 I know that Harper had no idea what these events are about, but it is like he knows how important the night is and seems so proud to be around Charli! 

on our way home from the zoo, Charli with her new love "sam" her alligator!  She and harper have matching little guys who come everywhere with us right now!!

 the pictures are a little out of order!  Here is our friend Sam!

 I can't remember his name...but he really liked us!  They look fake, but I assure you they are the real thing!!

 Did you know that this is how they regulate their body temperature?!  They were warming up at this moment!

Harper would touch her, and then pull his hand away so fast...here Chad was trying to get him to keep his hand on it to really feel the penguin!

 Charli with one of our friends!!  you can see that she didn't want to take her eyes off of him, she wouldn't even look at the camera!!

 Harper had warmed up (though it was very cold in there!!) to the little fellas!  Ahhh, they are so cute, I want to go in there every time I go now!

this is bubbles the turtle!  charli learned a lot on this day!
Harper thought he was pretty big stuff to get the toy basket on his lap and have his pick of whatever he wanted!

Harper at the Relay Friday night after enjoying a cupcake with purple frosting!!  It looks like a mustache is in his future ;-)

Sam getting his snack...

What a fun-fun-fun experience!!

I felt so honored to have the opportunity to share these events with the kids this weekend.